Most marriages in distress suffer from the degeneration of sexual
satisfaction. Usually sexual pleasure improves as the overall
relationship improves. Occasionally, however, sex itself is a
problem.
Initially my advice to couples is to have sex one day
a week at a specific time that day. What this accomplishes is
that the
relationship for the other six days can be generously affectionate
without the touching leading to sex. This advice alone solves
a great percentage of sexual difficulties.
Counseling will offer a structured approach to the couple’s
sexual behavior. Many aspects of sexual dysfunction are complex
and usually require a person see their physician to rule out physical
causalities. Homework will be assigned.
Confidentiality and
Ethical Codes
There are many laws and codes of ethics that regulate a therapist.
It is beyond question and dispute that a therapist protects with
the strictest confidence the information shared in the therapeutic
setting. During the initial visit a clear declaration of client’s
rights are shared.
|